
Not Crazy, Just a Little Unwell: Hope for Anxious Partners
Since I’ve been looking at this topic from the angle of a couple’s therapist lately, through my recent Gottman Couples Therapy training, let's delve into some of the realities of living with anxiety as a couple.

Relationship Trauma: The Impacts of Unresolved Pain
The relationships, healthy and unhealthy, you engage in, shape and form you, in return. And while this impact is not set in stone, it takes intentionality and concentrated effort to counter and heal from the impact of unhealthy relationships. No matter how subtle the damage, unhealthy relationships can cause trauma. Let’s take a look at a few of the common lingering effects of relationship trauma.

Healing Your "Trust Issues": Moving Beyond Trauma-Induced Doubts and Insecurities
We’ll unravel two more interconnected threads: "I can't trust myself" and "I can’t trust that good things will last." These deeply ingrained beliefs can leave us feeling insecure, doubting our choices, and hesitant to expect or embrace happiness. Let's delve into the origins of these beliefs and work toward reclaiming trust, both in ourselves and the world around us.

Your Mental Health, Your Money: Making the Most of Out-of-Network Benefits
I believe that prioritizing your mental health shouldn't break the bank. In today's blog post, we're delving into the world of out-of-network benefits and how you can leverage them to make the most of your therapy experience.

Out of the Shadows: Reclaiming Your Power After Childhood Trauma
Do you ever struggle with a nagging whisper that tells you you're not good enough? Do you struggle with thoughts that you are a burden to your loved ones, or “bad luck” to your people, and unworthy of love and care? Does a sense of helplessness in regards to your own life and emotions, and guilt for others' difficulties and negative emotions keep you in a constant state of anxiety and shame?

The Price of a False Peace: How Trauma Fuels People-Pleasing and Burnout
Do you ever feel like you're constantly running on empty, juggling work demands, personal needs, and the expectations of others? Are you a high achiever who prioritizes everyone else's well-being, leaving your own needs unmet? What if the source of your exhaustion isn't just the workload and societal expectations? What if your deep-seated need to please everyone stems from unresolved childhood trauma? It’s actually quite a common issue, these people-pleasing tendencies, and it’s a habit often rooted in childhood trauma. If this sounds familiar, you should know that this is an issue that can often lead to resentment, anxiety, and burnout if left unaddressed. Let’s take a look at the specifics and ways you can break free from the cycle of people-pleasing and prioritize your own well-being.

Embracing Resilience: Unraveling Seven Unhealthy Beliefs from Childhood Trauma
We'll explore the seven most prevalent unhealthy beliefs that often manifest in people whose childhood was marked by abuse, abandonment, or instability. Recognizing and understanding these beliefs is the crucial first step towards healing, growth and ultimately breaking the cycle of abuse and trauma.

Lingering Shadows: Understanding the Long-Term Effects of Unresolved Trauma
Birth trauma, childhood trauma, and relationship trauma, while distinct in their origins, are similar in the resulting effects of unresolved traumas on not only mental and emotional well-being, but also the way we navigate the complexities of birth, childhood, and intimate relationships throughout our lives. Understanding these long-term repercussions is crucial for both individuals grappling with the aftermath, and the professionals who hope to guide them toward healing.

Protect & Serve: Why US Forces & Law Enforcement Members & Partners Need Relationship Therapy
The high-stress nature of the job, long hours, and the unique culture of Criminal Justice Service Members can all impact the ability of these couples to form and maintain healthy relationships. In this blog, we will explore the reasons why law enforcement couples need relationship therapy and how it can help.

Evidence-Based Strategies for Sustaining and Enhancing Healthy Habits
In the pursuit of personal wellness, maintaining and nurturing healthy habits stands as a cornerstone. From regular exercise routines to mindful eating practices, these habits significantly impact mental, emotional, and physical well-being. However, the challenge often lies in sustaining these behaviors over time.
In this blog, we’ll dig into some of the latest research-backed methodologies that can fortify and perpetuate these essential practices.

Top Positive Enhancements - Sex and Physical Intimacy Has on Our Well-Being
In the complex tapestry of human emotions and relationships, few threads are as intricate and vital as those of sex and physical intimacy. In this blog, I aim to shed light on the powerful ways that sex and intimacy influence and enhance our mental and emotional health.

Important Communication Skills to Strengthen Your Relationships
Effective communication is the backbone of any healthy and thriving relationship. Whether you're navigating the ups and downs of a romantic partnership or fostering connections with friends and family, these important communication components can help you build and maintain the strong, meaningful relationships you desire.

The Top Ways Sobriety Improves your Overall Mental Clarity
Sobriety isn't just about abstaining from alcohol or drugs; it's a transformative journey that can significantly improve your overall health.

6 Impacts of Nutrition on Well-Being
Our diet not only impacts our physical health but also plays an essential role in our mental well-being.

7 Correlations of Sleep and Mental Health
Sleep is an essential aspect of our daily lives. It impacts our physical health, cognitive function, relationships, and overall well-being. However, its significance extends beyond mere rest and rejuvenation. The quality and quantity of our sleep greatly influence our mental health as well.

5 Essential Reasons Why Every New Therapist Needs Mentors and Support Networks
Becoming a therapist is an exciting and rewarding journey. However, embarking on this career path can also be overwhelming…That’s why there cannot be enough emphasis on securing a mentor and a strong support network to help fulfill their capability to help communities surrounding them.

5 Benefits of Optimal Mental Health
Your mental health is vital to your overall well-being and so it is important to take all the necessary measures to ensure that you stay mentally healthy

4 Ways Money Management and Mental Health Impact Each Other
The relationship between money and mental health is undeniable. How you view money can influence your mental & physical health, just as your mental health can impact how you manage your finances daily.

5 Strategies to Cope with ADHD/ADD Symptoms
ADD/ADHD can present struggles in all areas of life. Here are my top 5 self-help tips for coping with ADHD/ADD symptoms

6 Ways To Build Healthy Relationships
Every relationship is unique because every person is different. There is no exact formula to keep a perfect relationship but there are ways that you and your partner can try in order to build a healthy one.